I have posted a ton of info about online dating, what to write and how to respond, etc.on my site and even some good examples of responses at: Take a look!
Send an email telling him you’re interested, that he find him attractive and you’d like to get to know him. It’s easy to get caught up in the game, like being in an ice cream shop and wanting to sample every flavor.So, do you have any advice for how to get my message to stand out? Most dating sites have a flirty option which allows you to express your interest without having to actually message a person.(On How About We, this is the “I’m Intrigued” button, on OKCupid it’s a wink.) In general, this is not a good way for a guy to approach a girl on an online dating site.And, somewhere in there, tell him you’ll never get on his bike but if he still wants to correspond you’d like that. You should already know what your ‘deal breakers’ are and stick to them. And, no matter how cute, how appealing his book list or interests, I know we won’t be a match. There will be times when you’re not getting much activity and any wink or email is exciting.The key is to be objective about the guy before diving in.